Holiday Fling Part Deux

We partied into the early morning. He would often pull me close and stare into my eyes. I felt like I was the only girl in the room. Sometimes he would pop off to have a smoke and I would dance with another guy who was within our group. He couldn't speak a word of English though so we just danced. When we returned to the hotel, he walked me to my room, kissed me on the cheek goodnight and said he would come to say goodbye to me the next morning as I would be leaving for home. He didn't show. I thought maybe he over slept so I messaged him that it was lovely to meet and I hope I see him in the future.

I arrived home a few hours later and his reply was very enthusiastic. He loved meeting me, had a great time last night and wish he could see me in the future. It all seemed to be moving so quickly, the more I was away from him the more I started thinking about him and less about my boyfriend. I became infatuated and wanted to know more about him. I remember he said he was going swimming with the dolphins so I asked how it was but he never replied. He messaged a few days later to tell me he was back home.

I guess this is where holiday mode fell off and real life set back in, his communication became less and less and I made a conscious effort not to message first in the hopes that he would talk to me first but a week past and nothing. I gave in, he said he was missing me but he was just very busy with his job. Then nothing again. I see him posting loads of events he's going to at home, he likes many of my facebook posts but we haven't talked in two to three weeks. I was confused at first but now I'm just rushing through this post because I left part one on such a cliff hanger. I don't have the same enthusiasm as I did when we first met and I think this serves as a lesson to any girl who is looking for advice that the really strong feelings you get when you're infatuated fade....even when you feel so overwhelmed by emotion and like the feeling will never go away. Don't talk for a few weeks and it fizzles out like a soda.